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Vanity Sizing - What Size Are You Really?

16 November, 2014 - 10:25pm by - First Lady | 39 Comments

Article by BR Tabatha

Have you ever refused to buy an item of clothing because 'your size' didn't fit you and you don't want to go up a size?

Well you're not alone - our obession with clothing sizes and fitting that certain number we're comfortable with, has led to a phenomenon called vanity sizing. 

Vanity sizing is a product of the slightly uncomfortable fact that people are bigger than they were decades ago, and instead of drawing attention to this fact, our clothes have grown with us. A size 12 today is like to have a few extra inches on the bust, waist and hips, than a size 12 of yesteryear. 

image: Cosmopolitan

Whether we like it or not many of us find our self worth in a number.  Whether it's the number on the scales or on the label in our clothes.  And we can't exactly change what a kilogram or a pound is right?

Clothing designers and brands know that the majority of women feel better wearing the size they deem as 'small' for themselves.  So if you're a size 12, you're probably going to feel absolutely kick-bootie in a size 10.  And no doubt you'll return to the store where you're a size 10 time and time again, as opposed to the shop where you love the clothes but have to size up to say a size 14. 

Clothing sizing isn't really standardised anymore - in the old days of 'off the rack' buying there were standards and although these still exist, the majority of design houses and factories use their own measurements.  Which explains why a size 12 in one shop is the same size as a size 14 in another.

Our body size increases, yet clothing sizes only secretly increase, ie, the number stays the same, so the smaller end of the spectrum had no where to go, but in to the controversial size 0.  Which then of course led to 00 and even 000.  And with designers being accused of propagrating unhealthy body images and eating disorders we have to face the uncomfortable truth that we, the consumer have a huge part to play in this.  We don't want to size up, even if across the world the average size is rising.  Our obsession with being the same size has led to a non-standardised sizing system that varies from store to store, from country to country.

It seems that we are so obsessed by numbers that we now have no sense of what size we really are - but maybe that's something we should embrace - Is it time we stop focusing on what number we are and wear the size that fits and makes us look great?  Heck, chop out the label and you'll look and feel good!

What are your thoughts on vanity sizing?  Are you all for it - does it make you feel better to fit a smaller clothing label?  Or are you frustrated with the lack of consistency between brands and wish someone would call time of vanity sizing and standardise our measurements again?

Get chatting below!


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20th November, 2014

I have the opposite feeling of the above comments but for the exact same reason! I would say I am a size 8 (old school sizing) but hate that I have to shop for size 4 or XXXS now or a size 1 for european labels. Yes I know I am small and always have been all my life but really, really object to these new sizes as I think it is a all a big fraud. Is it to make larger ladies feel great buying and fitting a size 10? How about us thinner people who are made to feel worse for buying a size 4?

I think this new labeling has the same affect for all sized people. Bring back the standard sizes that we used to have in NZ I say!

20th November, 2014

What is hard is getting your size off the rack and taking it into the dressing room and then finding it doesn't fit. Having to get dressed and go back out and get another size. It's very deflating and puts you off shopping. I don't mind what size if it fits - you can always cut the label out although on saying that if it was a size smaller than I would normally wear always make you feel great!

18th November, 2014

My clothes range from 8-10 yes, I probably could squeeze into a size 6 but it's not about fitting into a certain size no one sees the tag anyways but you will look better in clothes that fit and suit your body. Sometimes I go up a size and wear it baggy for comfort. I haven't been clothing shopping in awhile but that's based on my current sizing and clothes that I have.

18th November, 2014

I don't like vanity sizing because it's just really hard to find jeans especially in other stores.

18th November, 2014

Admittedly I don't pay too much attention to the sizing of the clothing as I go for comfort factor instead. I have found that even my regular brands are differing in sizing as well.

18th November, 2014

I hate clothes shopping especially when it is hard to find your size. I am happy to go to the next size up, it does not mean that I have gained weight (most of the time it is for this reason lol!), there is more room for comfort. It fantastic news if I go down a size. I have now probs with up sizing:)

18th November, 2014

I love clothes shopping!! I like taking my nieces out with me. My niece whose 14 she was surprised that I weighed the same as her. All my clothes fit her. She thinks shes too fat.. I just reassured her. Like I can fit 12/14/16. Just depends where I go too.

18th November, 2014

I hate clothes shopping ! But I love shopping at City Chic ! There sizing is awesome for us 'bigger' girls !

18th November, 2014

I hate vanity sizing! I wish we could go back to standardised measurements. I know it's silly but I do get upset when I have to go up a size if something doesn't fit in the size I think I am. I love some stores that have larger size 10s and 12s and I will happily go back. Funny how our mentality works

17th November, 2014

I gotta tell you the story from the other perspective too. I started out as a size 8(S) and there were clothes fitting nicely with size 10(M), now I am a size 6 or 4, mostly 4, (XS or XXS), so frickin hard to find, or I can buy children's clothes(I am 26, so...)!:( I would like to buy nice pieces too, but I have to say I haven't bought any new clothes for ages for the reason everything looks like a sack on me. I am 45kgs by the way and it is not changing, so sizing changed a lot and I HATE IT.

17th November, 2014

I'm at an age now I don't care what size the label says. As long as it fits and I don't look like a sausage trying to squeeze out of the casing :-) x

17th November, 2014

I worked in retail for several years and now know there's no point me sticking stubbornly to one particular size. Different clothing styles will fit differently as will different fabrics - something with stretch I'm going to wear a smaller size than something rigid. It's all about how the clothing fits on. I'd prefer if stores did have more standardised sizing so you could at least have a starting point to go on in each store instead of trying on several sizes.

17th November, 2014

In all honesty, since I started working in clothing retail, I stopped taking notice of the sizes for myself as I can fit 4 different sizes in my shop as it depends on the brand. Im not caught up on that when I go into other shops now. I do witness daily/weekly, women who refuse to buy the next size up. I quickly mention that my size range varies etc and with some confidence boosting comments/compliments, the lady will 9 times out of 10 try that "bigger" garment on and purchase it :-) I try really hard to not let my daughter's get too caught up on it either.

17th November, 2014

My size goes up and and down due to my weight from a 10 to a 12 usually. I never try anything on if I go to a store and buy which is a rare occasion (I really should!). I always buy online and just buy the size I've been in for the past two months or so...sometimes they fit and sometimes they don't but I've learned that the stores I buy from online what size I fit better in :)

17th November, 2014

I really wish there was some universal sizing guidlines - especially as there is more access with online shoping. If i'm online, I always look at the sizing chart & whip out a tape measure. I would always prefer something I like that fits properly than worry about the size. Saying that though, I do like being a 'Small' in City Chic clothes, but their staff are all lovely!

Susilia
19th November, 2014

I haven't been in the situation having to buy maternity clothes or nursing bras yet, but reading your comment I'm not looking forward to it!!!:D

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